Dating after sex
Even though society has come a long way from patching an 'A' on our dresses, you shouldn't be super hard on yourself for internalizing certain sex-shaming ideals.
“People want to avoid the judgment and shame associated with having sex outside of what is 'acceptable,'" explains only ever do what feels good to you. But let's tag in some experts on the first-date sex debate: Get it, girl! )If you're feeling the chemistry at the end of the night, go for it and screw (literally) what anyone else thinks.
Yes, of course, you’re still girlfriend material If you choose to have sex on the first date, it should not have any impact on your eligibility as a partner.
But what about when it comes to what to do after sex?
In real life, with post-coital smoking comes many passion-killers: cigarette burns on bed linen; overflowing ashtrays on the nightstand; nicotine breath; trails of ash across your chest like the Eyjafjallajökull volcano. Keep your ideas big, the method of achievement vague and the tone aspirational.
So, yes to those travel plans, small business ideas, and no to wanting to be the first man in the country to eat a burger the size of Brentford and live.
Research has shown the first few minutes after sex are a good time for requesting favours.
Assuming you’ve done a decent job, it’s said partners who are more likely to be willing to do stuff for you – or agree to your ideas – in those cosy few moments.