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Once you pay, none of those people actually reply to any effort you make to contact them. In other words, 100% fake plants that the site employs to make people believe it is an active and successful site.

Worst of all, claims to be a BDSM site, and yet if you are a submissive looking for a dominant the majority of people they "match" you to are also submissives who are looking for dominant partners.

I made an account for "perversions.com" because some bogus review site said it's good for BDSM people, then it turns out to actually be a website called eroticads.com, which I searched and had several bogus reviews, then I found actual user reviews that verified everything is bogus.

ANYWAY, I can find normal women offline easy, but where do I find women into BDSM or fetish-related stuff?

It is worth being on there, though, and it is free. You will find out about local events and regional/national events.

If you post in the forums on fetlife it gives you the chance to engage intellectually with people, which can lead to meetings.

if you are a submissive male, your first experiences will almost certainly be with professionals.

There are few dominant women and many submissive men and the odds are incredibly against you.

The biggest shame as Alt.com/AFF bought and closed it down. Many other sites follow this model, like Femdom Dating, which also fills your mailbox with messages trying to get you to pay so you can read them. So if you are much over 30 you may not generate much interest. It too is mainly younger people, but many appear to be real and there is a large number with dating profiles. And if you are a submissive male there are 10 zillion for every eligible female.

And all of them are from hot young women, by their photo, looking for a slave to worshi8p them, although they live thousands of miles from you, are young enough to be your daughter, and won't reply to your messages, since they do not really exist. Church of Chains uses the same interface, but I do not know if they are at all related. It is international, mainly Dom Male and sub females but there are the opposite orientations too. So you have work cut out for you if you expect to be noticed at all.

But if you are a dominant male looking for more than playing in the semi-public scene with women who are already attached but allowed to "play," you are also facing extreme odds.

If you are hot, you may get some free play at parties and events.

If you are not hot but personable, networking within the community can eventually get you play.

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