Love sex and dating
We hope you’ll be inspired to make your own relational resolution as you enter the new year, remembering that God has your story under control and wants the best for you. These three messages are among my favorites of all the books I read and sermons I heard in 2011.
Then listen to Lisa’s interview with Andy to hear his thoughts on how to prepare for marriage, the church’s role and some non-negotiables when choosing a spouse. Focus on the Family counselor Christina Browning shares some advice.
He addresses these topics that seem to be neglected or perverted by today's culture from a Biblical perspective ...
Communicator, author, and pastor Andy Stanley founded Atlanta-based North Point Ministries in 1995.
While I am a rather poor excuse for a Christian (I like Christmas Trees) with a one way ticket to hell for some matters involving lusting over a bare thigh (in church no less) for which I refuse to ask forgiveness, I am a rather dyed in the wool monogamist. Later chapters he drags out the sin and purity and starts thumping the Bible, but if you can get around the rhetoric, for the most part the suggestions in this book are good and would apply to non-religious folks as well as the religious. His main tenet is that instead of looking for the right partner become the right partner. That said however I will admit that I think he is right, jumping into sex prematurely blinds one to the relationship flaws.We’re usually able to spot ’em three or four scenes into a movie or a half-dozen chapters into a novel. I assume you don’t take your relationship cues from script writers and authors.But it’s possible you’ve embraced the underlying premise that holds these story lines and episodes together.That assumption being: That’s what many married people told themselves when they were single. They met someone they were physically attracted to, added sex to the relationship right away, and fell into a kind of neurochemical bliss that made them believe that not only had they never loved like this, Soon enough, their relationship problems began causing chemistry problems.The sexual part of the marriage died, leaving both of them frustrated and confused.Not for the faint of heart, The New Rules for Love, Sex & Dating challenges singles to step up and set a new standard for this generation.“If you don't want a marriage like the majority of marriages, then stop dating like the majority of daters!But there’s nothing boring about actually living happily ever after — and you can, provided you come to understand that “happily ever after” requires preparation and changing your mind-set. If you date with the idea that you’re on a quest for the right person, you’re setting yourself up for failure.Think about some popular movies, TV shows, and songs about romance. Healthy relationships don’t result from pursuing desirable qualities on a check-list.Andy and his wife, Sandra, have three grown children and live near Atlanta. – Ever thought of praying for 100 days for a spouse or going on 27 first dates in a year? Listen in as they discuss intentional things they’ve done to prepare for marriage, meet men and get outside their normal routines.