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Even if that latter category sounds appealing to you, remember that people blithely (or desperately) looking for a squeeze between the sheets can put more earnest daters off.

OKC may have a high member count, but a lot of women find its barrage of sex requests and outright abuse an instant red flag. One female friend complained to me that she got so many messages per day (most saying “Heyyyy”) she felt that she “was at the centre of a toad knot”.

You have to answer 50 to begin with, so the site can build a picture of what you are.As few people actually bother deleting their profile, part of the torment of using OKC is wondering whether the person you've messaged is ignoring you or simply met a lovely bloke six months ago.Mind you, it’s not all bad – there are plenty of lovely women on there, and the site has a huge success rate in matching partners.So, even if you think there’s only a million to one chance someone will date you, in theory, there’s a man/woman/omnisexual on here for you. Well, strangely, it's actually one of the immediate problems with OKC.The site as an absolute hive of polyamorous kinksters, furries and other assorted people at the odd end of the dating site pool.Long story short, it involved going to her sex dungeon and being locked in a cage while she choked me and her husband relieved himself on me.The message ended in the most English way imaginable: "Do let me know if that sounds like your cup of tea". Call me a prude, but urine-soaked homoerotic strangulation is not my cup of tea at all.Telegraph Dating - a place where you can have fun getting to know like-minded people in a safe and secure environment.Any time of year is a great time for romance, and whether it's spring, summer, winter or fall, love is definitely always in the air. If you're single, you might be searching for a partner who wants to stroll through a park or spend a lazy weekend with you watching ?Thereafter, the more questions you answer, the more likelihood the OKC algorithm will find you a match.What this means is, with not much thought, you can fairly easily sculpt your profile to find, for example, a gay eugenics pipe smoker.